Source | Scoop Whoop : By Shabdita Pareek
As we grow up to face the real world and accept new challenges, we always find our parents standing in support, through thick and thin, having our back for every transition that we make. Drawing from their own experiences, every parent teaches the most important life-lessons and values to their children. And famous parents are no different. One such renowned personality is Chanda Kochhar, the CEO and MD of ICICI Bank, who made a mark in the corporate field setting an example for millions of women.
But when it comes to her children, Kochhar is every bit of a doting mother, who believes in raising her children with values. So, when Kochhar, who is at the helm of India’s largest domestic bank, passed along life-lessons and reflections to her daughter, it came out to be an inspiration for everyone.
In an emotional letter to her daughter, Chanda Kochhar discusses her life-altering journeys, importance of family, and keeping strong in the face of difficulties, in ‘Legacy: Letters from eminent parents to their daughters’ by Sudha Menon.
Here is her inspiring letter to her daughter.
It makes me feel so proud today to see you standing in front of me as a confident young woman right on the threshold of an exciting journey through life. I am looking forward to seeing you grow and flourish in the years ahead.
This moment has also brought back memories of my own journey, and the life lessons I learnt along the way. When I think of those times, I realize that most of these lessons were actually learnt in my childhood, mostly through examples set by my parents. The values that they instilled in my formative years gave me the foundation on which I try to live my life even today.
Our parents treated all three of us – two sisters and a brother – equally. When it came to education, or our future plans, there was no discrimination between us based on our gender. Your grandparents always had the same message for the three of us – that it was important to focus on what gave us satisfaction and to work towards it with utmost dedication. That early initiation enabled us to develop into confident individuals capable of taking decisions independently. This also helped me when I started out on my own journey of self- discovery.
I was only a young girl of 13 when my father passed away from a sudden heart attack, leaving us unprepared to take on life without him. We had been protected from life’s challenges so far. But without warning, all that changed overnight. And my mother, who had been a homemaker till then, faced the responsibility of raising three children all on her own. It was then that we realized how strong she was and how determined to do her duty in the best possible manner. Slowly, she discovered a flair for designing and textiles, found herself a job with a small firm, and quickly made herself indispensable to them. It must have been challenging for her to shoulder the responsibility of bringing up her family single- handed, but she never let us feel like it was a task for her. She worked hard till she saw all of us through college and we became independent. I never knew that my mother had such a wealth of self-assurance and belief within her.